May 13, 2025
In the dynamic world of modern entrepreneurship and web development, it’s easy to get swept up in the latest trends. Everywhere you turn, from business coaches to influencers, the advice often centers around modeling yourself after the “successful” folks in your industry today. And so, many entrepreneurs, solopreneurs, and small business owners spend significant time scouring Instagram, Facebook, and LinkedIn, looking for perfect templates, swipe files, and ready-to-copy content strategies.
But there’s a crucial element that most people miss, and that’s what I’ll unpack for you today.
I’ve been in the business, providing web development support, marketing consulting, and now even automation and AI training for over 30 years. One common frustration I hear from clients: “I’m following what the top players in my niche are doing. I’m posting the same kinds of images, using similar captions, hashtags, even matching their content calendar… so why am I not growing like them? Why don’t the leads, likes, and engagement just roll in?”
The reality is, most of what you see from influencers—aesthetic graphics, high-budget video reels, team-managed content, large-scale collaborations—is actually maintenance mode. What you’re witnessing is the upkeep of a machine they already built. In most cases, these influencers have spent years establishing their foundation, often using very different methods from those they employ today.
So if you’re a Santa Barbara business owner, a freelancer somewhere else in the world, or a creative dreaming of bigger things, you need a smarter approach to modeling and learning from your role models.
Let’s dig into some truth:
1. Influencers’ Present Tactics are Not What Built Their Audience
When browsing any influencer’s feed, you’re seeing highlights and the polished front-end of a much longer story. The high-engagement posts, branded partnerships, and slick marketing strategies are only possible because they already have an audience, system, and credibility. The online course launches and limited-time offers are supported by years of compounded trust and brand familiarity.
If you attempt to replicate those polished tactics without the groundwork, it’s like putting the roof on a house before the foundation is set. The result? Frustration, disappointment, and slow (if any) growth.
2. It’s Easy to Miss the Real Origin Story
Most influencers weren’t as polished or consistent in the early days. In fact, if you scroll back to the beginnings of their Instagram or blog (which many people rarely do), you’ll see rougher photos, more personal storytelling, and posts about their process, struggles, and lessons learned. You might see the points where they were actively networking, guest posting, collaborating, and showing up in authentic, sometimes unpolished, ways.
The learning: Don’t just absorb what’s visible now—trace their journey back to your current level and see what was different about their activities and strategy at that stage.
Let’s break down an actionable process to use influencers as models for your own web development, marketing, or creative journey—without falling into the copycat trap.
Choose two or three role models—preferably ones who have carved out a niche audience similar to the one you want to build.
- On Instagram: Scroll all the way back. Look for stories about their first client, early project wins, or vulnerable posts about mistakes.
- On YouTube: Check out their first videos. Often, the production quality is lower, but the lessons and behind-the-scenes hustle show through.
- On their blog: Read their oldest posts. Find the point where they went from invisible to gaining traction.
Pay attention to the pattern: How often did they post? How did they engage with comments and community? What tools or platforms were they using? Were they running local workshops, hitting networking events, or pitching guest expert spots?
Everyone has “leap moments”—periods when their growth accelerated. Sometimes it’s after launching a unique service, collaborating with a key partner, or going all-in on a new platform.
- Can you identify what triggered their leap?
- Was it a consistent blog series, a speaking engagement, or a viral post?
- If possible, reach out and ask them about those moments. Many appreciate thoughtful questions that go beyond “how do I grow on Instagram?”
What you’ll typically find is not a set of highly-designed graphics or choreographed video sequences. Instead, you’ll see:
- Frequent engagement and raw conversation in the comments.
- Real-time learning and sharing of new skills.
- Stories about client wins and failures.
- Offers for free consults, beta testers, or pilot programs.
- Joint ventures with other “early-stage” creators.
These behaviors are what create momentum and build your base. It’s consistency, community, and collaboration over perfection.
The vast majority of successful people didn’t “wing it” forever. Once they found an action that worked (posting a certain kind of tip, running weekly webinars, deep-diving into DMs and comments), they developed simple systems to repeat those actions consistently.
That could mean:
- Creating a basic template for Instagram posts.
- Using a calendar to plan one blog per week.
- Setting up canned responses for common email inquiries.
- Carving out 30 minutes daily to comment on others’ social posts or blogs in your industry.
The magic isn’t in one-off big actions, but in scalable, repeatable processes—even if they start out on the back of a napkin or in a free Trello board.
Another rookie mistake? Only reaching out to the “big names.” In reality, your best potential partners are often peers—creators, entrepreneurs, and service providers at a similar stage as you.
- Who is targeting a similar audience with a non-competing service?
- Can you co-host a workshop, run a giveaway, or guest post on each other’s blogs?
- Who’s just a little bit ahead of you? Can you support them genuinely so you’re top of mind for the next opportunity?
Early-stage collaborations and networking have exponential returns over time.
Here’s an interesting twist: Many “top” experts and influencers themselves struggle to keep momentum. They sometimes lose touch with the behavior and strategies that got them to the top. The pressure to keep performing or to only show the “shiny” side can separate them from the daily engagement that made fans love them in the first place.
This explains why you’ll sometimes see established voices suddenly “pivot,” start sharing vulnerability, or launch a totally new project. They realize the game changes, and what worked two years ago won’t work forever.
It’s a reminder for everyone (beginners and veterans alike) to regularly return to foundational behaviors: creating genuine value, fostering authentic conversations, and staying consistent with the basics.
To wrap up these ideas, let’s revisit the true accelerators to business and marketing growth:
You don’t need the world’s best funnel or the fanciest tools to start. You need a way to capture, nurture, and delight customers routinely.
- Start simple: Use free tools or spreadsheets.
- Upgrade as needed, but don’t wait for “perfect” before getting started.
Fortune doesn’t just favor the bold; it favors the consistent. Posting regularly, engaging every day, and showing up for your audience builds trust and visibility far more powerfully than isolated “brilliant” one-offs.
Set a pace you can maintain—once a week, twice a month, whatever. The trick is to keep going.
Learn from your and others' early experiments. When you see something start to work—even a little—iterate on it. Tweak, test, and improve rather than jumping on every shiny strategy you see. Over time, those small improvements stack up.
Here’s a simple roadmap for applying the ideas above:
1. Identify 2 or 3 role models whose journey resonates with you—not just for where they are, but where they started.
2. Research their early activity. Go deep into their archives—first blog posts, earliest YouTube videos, their origin story on Instagram. Write down common themes in how they started and what they focused on at your stage.
3. Extract and implement: Create a list of 3 to 5 early-stage habits or actions they took that you can realistically adopt or adapt. This could be:
- Posting one engaging story each day.
- Sending three networking emails per week.
- Publishing a blog post every other Wednesday.
- Sharing the process of a website build or a client win in raw detail.
4. Setup basic systems: Even if it’s just a content calendar in Google Sheets or a recurring appointment to network, systemize it.
5. Engage and collaborate: Find peers in Facebook groups, LinkedIn, or meetups. Co-create, share audiences, and invest in relationships.
6. Review Quarterly: Every three months, look at your progress. Which early-strategy actions moved the needle? What can you double-down on or automate next?
Success is rarely just the result of copying and pasting someone else’s strategy. The truth is, top performers got there through a combination of hustle, experimentation, relationship-building, and—most importantly—consistent action rooted in systems and process. The question isn’t, “How do I make my social media look like theirs today?” but “What did they do when they were where I am now, and how can I put my own spin on that?”
Wherever you are in your business journey, remember that today’s highlight reel is built on yesterday’s hustle. Focus on the behaviors and mindsets that build success from the ground up, not just the public maintenance routines you see online.
As always, if you have questions or want personalized advice, drop them in the comments below. I’m here to help you build, grow, and thrive sustainably—one real, consistent action at a time.
See you next time. Take care.
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