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When it comes to marketing, whether you’re a solopreneur in Santa Barbara, a busy business owner in Silicon Valley, or the marketing director of a large coastal firm, there is a single question that should be at the heart of every message you share with the world: What’s in it for me?

This powerful, deceptively simple question is not for you as the creator, manager, or marketer. It is the clarion call, the driving question, on the mind of every prospect, every customer, and every member of your audience as they scroll by your website, your social media post, or your service page.

Today, I’m taking you on an extended deep dive into exactly why the “what’s in it for me?” mindset is essential to embrace in your marketing, how to adopt it, and how it can transform everything from your web copy to your course promotions, even the way you present yourself online.

Let’s step into your customer’s shoes for a while.

Why “What’s In It For Me?” Reigns Supreme in Modern Marketing

Modern marketing is a cacophony of messages. According to numerous studies, the average person is exposed to up to 10,000 branded messages per day. It’s not simply TV commercials and obvious banner ads; it’s every product label, every logo, every quick pitch on LinkedIn, every influencer story, every pop-up, and every subtle “sponsored” tag in the sidebar of their everyday browsing.

Attention is the most valuable currency in the digital age, and your audience is doing everything they can to protect theirs. Each message is filtered through a razor-sharp lens of skepticism and self-interest. With inboxes overflowing and social media feeds engineered to distract, people have learned to triage communications at lightning speed.

That means, unless your marketing immediately communicates relevance and value – unless it compellingly answers “what’s in it for me?” from their perspective – you’re invisible.

The Pitfall: Marketing From the Inside Out

Many businesses and creators make the mistake of marketing from the inside out. They start with what they want to say. They list features, credentials, awards, and everything that makes their company unique. But none of that matters unless framed in a way that is relevant to the audience.

Ask yourself: If you were your own customer, would you care about the number of years you’ve spent in the industry, or the certifications on your wall? Or are you more interested in how you can help them solve a burning problem, achieve a desired outcome, save time, or make life easier?

It’s not about ignoring your achievements or skipping the important details. It’s about leading with the customer’s needs and showing them right away that you understand them.

How to Shift Into the Customer Perspective

The transition to customer-centric thinking involves more than editing a few headlines or adding a new FAQ. It’s a discipline, a habit that you practice every day in all your messaging:

1. Literally Stand in Their Shoes

Before you develop any piece of communication, take a moment to close your eyes and imagine you’re your own prospective customer. What are you struggling with? What are your daily annoyances related to the product or service you sell? What hopes or dreams are attached to solving those issues? What are you worried about, or excited about, or simply too busy to care about?

2. Ask, “So What?” To Every Claim

Whenever you state a feature or make a claim, apply the “So what?” test.

- “We’re the leading web design experts in Santa Barbara.” So what?

- “Our team is certified in the latest AI automation techniques.” So what?

- “We have 24/7 support for all our clients.” So what?

Only when you answer the “so what?” with something the prospect cares about are you speaking their language. For example: “So you can relax knowing your website will never break and help is always one call away.” Now, that’s value.

3. Lead With Benefits, Not Features

Features are about your offering. Benefits are about your customer.

- Feature: “Our platform has cross-browser compatibility.”

- Benefit: “Your website will work perfectly for every visitor, on any device, so you never miss a sale.”

4. Understand The True Motivation

People don’t really buy drills because they want drills. They buy them because they want holes in their walls. Maybe they want to hang family portraits, or finally finish a DIY project. Maybe they want the pride that comes from a job well done, or to save money versus hiring a pro. The “what’s in it for me?” is the inner motivation, not just the surface requirement.

5. Speak Their Language

Learn how your audience describes their problems and goals – not the jargon you use in your industry. Use that language in your marketing materials. This increases the “felt relevance” and triggers instant rapport.

The Battle For Attention: Why Speed Matters

Because there are so many distractions, your window for capturing interest is extremely short. Studies show you have just seconds to grab attention online. By immediately signaling “what’s in it for me?” – for example, in your headline, video intro, or lead paragraph – you effectively raise your hand and say, “Hey, this is for you!” That’s when attention is granted.

Once you have that attention, if the rest of your content continues to build on the benefits and relevance for the user, you can hold interest, build trust, and guide your audience toward a decision.

Practical Ways To Implement “What’s In It For Me?” Across Channels

Your Website’s Home and Landing Pages

You have 2-5 seconds to make a strong impression before visitors bounce, so your opening line needs to tell them:

- Who it’s for (target user or business)

- What you do (solution)

- Why it matters (the key benefit in the prospect’s own life or business)

For example, compare:

- “Custom Website Design Services in Santa Barbara” with

- “Grow Your Santa Barbara Business With a Site That Attracts, Engages, and Converts Customers”

The second version isn’t just a bland statement of service – it states specifically what the result is for the customer: business growth via attracting, engaging, and converting.

Social Media

Social posts are even more competitive – attention is measured in split seconds as viewers scroll. Before posting, ask:

- Does my image/first line speak to a problem or aspiration my audience is having?

- Do I hook them quickly by relating to their situation, not mine?

For example, instead of:

- “We’re excited to launch our new AI training course!”

Try:

- “Tired of spending hours on repetitive tasks? Unlock time and boost productivity with our step-by-step AI training, made for busy professionals.”

Email Marketing

Even loyal customers will ignore emails unless the subject line and preview text signal they’re about to get something valuable.

Instead of a subject like:

- “April Newsletter from SB Web Guy”

Try:

- “How to Save 5 Hours This Week With These Web Automation Tips (Santa Barbara Edition)”

Get to the value first. Then deliver and exceed expectations in the message.

Webinars, Video Content, & Courses

Always start with a reason for your viewer to stick around:

- What are they going to walk away with?

- How will this save them time, money, hassle, or help them avoid a costly mistake?

- How will their business or personal life change for the better by applying what you’re about to share?

For example:

- “In this video, I’ll show you the 3 most common web mistakes Santa Barbara businesses make, and how to fix them in minutes – saving you thousands in lost sales.”

Service Pages & Product Descriptions

Lead every section with a concise answer to “here’s why this matters to you.”

Feature: “24/7 Technical Support”

Benefit: “Never wait for help – get instant answers any time, so your website stays up and your business never misses a lead.”

Feature: “Cross-device design”

Benefit: “Your clients have a flawless experience whether they’re on a phone at the beach, a laptop in a coffee shop, or a desktop at the office.”

In Person and Networking

The “what’s in it for me?” approach is not just for web and digital content. When you introduce yourself at a local gathering or a professional networking event, resist the urge to launch into your job title or a list of services.

Instead, say:

- “I help Santa Barbara business owners use automation tools and AI so they can save time, get more done, and grow faster – without the tech headaches.”

This invites your listener to see themselves in your scenario, rather than making them guess what you do or why they should care.

Overcoming the “Me-Centric” Mindset

Many businesses worry that focusing too much on benefits makes them sound like everyone else, or that critical details will be lost. The reality is, you can absolutely showcase your USP (unique selling proposition), features, or technical details – just do so through the lens of customer value.

For every point you want to make, simply finish the sentence with “…so that you…” and describe the benefit.

For example:

- “Our team has 30 years of experience with both Mac and PC users, so that you never have compatibility hassles and your team can work smoothly, whatever systems you use.”

- “We’re based in Santa Barbara, so that you get local, responsive support from someone who actually understands your market and your audience.”

Benefits Beyond Better Messaging

When you reorient your marketing to center the question “what’s in it for me?” you’ll find benefits that go well beyond words. You’ll become more:

- Focused: You’ll spend less energy on initiatives that don’t connect with your users.

- Creative: You’ll constantly look for ways to make your offers more relevant, attractive, or streamlined.

- Efficient: Your conversions will generally increase, because you’re addressing the real needs and objections of your prospects, not assumed ones.

- Trusted: When you show, repeatedly, that you understand your audience and put them at the heart of your solutions, you’ll be seen as a business that “gets it.”

From Theory to Practice: A Simple Audit for Your Marketing

Ready to put all this into action? Here’s a quick, actionable audit:

1. Choose a Page or Piece of Content

Pick any one: website homepage, services page, about page, latest social post, product description, course outline.

2. Read It With the Customer in Mind

Imagine you are a prospect seeing this for the first time. Ask, “Would I care? Does this speak to me? Does it make it clear how my life/business/problem will be improved?”

3. Underline Every Statement That Isn’t Directly Relevant to the User

If you find whole paragraphs about your company’s history, your methods, or features with no clear “so what?” attached, make a note.

4. Revise Your Content

For every claim or feature, add a “so that you…” benefit-oriented ending, or rewrite the section to start with the user’s desired outcome.

5. Test and Collect Feedback

Try A/B testing your revised version, or show it to customers and ask them honestly: Does this speak to a need you have? Would you scroll further or want to learn more? Use that data to refine your message.

Building Habits For Long-term Success

It can be tough, especially after years (or decades) of thinking like a business operator, to develop the discipline of always leading with customer benefit. But like any discipline, it gets easier with regular practice. Make reviewing your content for the “what’s in it for me?” question a regular step in your creation process.

Encourage your team to run every headline, page, or new campaign by this filter. Over time, you’ll find it leads to a powerful shift in communication – one that pays dividends in leads, sales, reviews, and repeat business.

Conclusion: Level Up By Focusing on Your Audience

Whether you market in Santa Barbara or globally, the fundamental truth remains – your customers are bombarded with messages, and they are always asking, “What’s in it for me?”

By consistently answering that question, you don’t just make your message sharper – you respect your audience’s time, intelligence, and needs. In exchange, you’ll earn their precious attention, their trust, and ultimately, their business.

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If you have questions about putting this approach into practice, drop them in the comments below! I love helping businesses discover how to make their marketing more effective, more relevant, and more successful. Until next time, keep your focus where it matters most – on the people you serve.